Fairness can mean the same rules for everyone, or treating each person according to need. The linguist Anna Wierzbicka argues that English “fair” is an Anglo keyword with no exact equivalent in some languages, Polish among them (review). A critical review doubts how testable that claim is. Either way, players who grew up in different languages may hear different words here.
The other side is Sweater. It was chosen because people keep a dead parent’s sweater for its smell, as posters describe on a Mumsnet bereavement thread. That side can bring up grief. Any card can be played from its other side, or passed. Agree how passing works before you start.
Draw it. Choose a side: Fairness or Sweater. Roll the die. Look at the word from that side.